Brantael
The current crises in western culture are centred in a profound disagreement about the nature of truth. This conflict is expressed almost without exception in areas sexual. And the family, founded upon the sexual relationship of man and wife, sits at the front of this culture war. In his excellent papal biography, Witness to Hope, George Weigel writes that four factors fuel this conflict: practical atheism, an unconscious rationalism, a distortion of freedom, and radical individualism. Each is a deformation of things human, and especially those maternal.
The 1990s saw an ongoing attempt to change the definition of what a mother is. Today the term may apply variously to a male or female one feels nurtured by (the former albeit sentimentally), one’s father’s wife/current lover, the one who produced the ovum for conception, the one who carried the child or gave birth or raised or nursed him, the one who supplied (some of) the genetic material, or even assumed still other tasks.
It is no trifling point to determine what a mother is since only the family can effectively deal with all the problems of individuals, and by extension of the societies they form. Mothers, as all of (and more) the above labels, are central to the mission of this most basic social unit. In living family love women lead men to father. While she may lead him as the heart of the family, she submits to him in love as head, both sharing in the revelation of God through the family. The culture war while obviously not exclusively internal finds its most important focus here.
Mothers and fathers each respond to its attacks in unique ways. Men, as active participants in their environs are concerned with the activity of life. Women, by no means incidentally, contribute (when not seeking to imitate men) by their very existence, their being. Women in being mothers help men to do fathering. Continue reading